During my sat's visit, I was very shocked to see my dad is so much slimmer than the previous time when I last visited him!! Dad told me that he didn't have his meals & he was extremely hungry, didn't eat enough. Suppose my dad fell asleep due to his parkinson & dementia that he tends to sleep most of the time & nurses didn't wake him up for his meals, how could that be?!
Dad told me to tell mother also that the nurses asked for coffee money before giving him coffee to drink. Told dad to ticked them off but dad dare not as he's afraid dunno what they might do to him. When we approached the nurses, the way they denied displayed guilty conscience. They never expect daddy to tell me. They said something to my dad in malay & dad replied back in a very angry tone..
A few times, when mother visited dad, saw them wanting dad to pluck the vegetables. Mother told the nurses already, not to let my dad do the task as his eyes can't see well & it's torturing him mentally & physically but still happens. If my dad wanted to sleep, just let him sleep as he didn't disturb the nurses at all.
On one account, dad brought up the matter to my attention that there's one nurse whom always said my dad's CPF got lotsa money.
It's worriesome for me as to whether my dad is really well taken care of or not. Plus medicine, did they give the actual dosage & no. of times per day.
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