It was really "NEWS" to me when one of the staffs working at XX Centre (whom is my friend) posted the following message in Facebook:
"is disgusted when different counsellors who are seeing the same client starts using the person as the "problem" during workshop...if only you know how counsellors are often the best people who put on the nicest smile before you."
The workshop was held during XX Centre's retreat.
It striked my mind instantly! Friend's refering to W (counsellor) & J (art therapist).
They can bring up my case for discussion but why in the world need to mention my name - where there should be confidentiality!
I received sms from my friend, this is what my friend expressed in the message:
X, knwg u as a frien, i thk its r.hard 4 me to stay objective when my colleagues start using ur probs in discussn. Its one in a v.insensitive manner whc affects me cuz i knw u. Its nt v.fair 4 u to c my fb comment also cuz u werent arnd. I ask 4 ur permission to remv u fm my fb? I dun wish to be in betw.
I replied her letting her know, no hard feelings. That day (when I went to XXXX xxxxx corner) wanted to tell u something but no chance. It's alright, dear.
Friend sms-ed "Sorry, I can't help u. :("
X: "No worries. We're still friends. Hugs."
Friend: Yes, still frenz! :)"
Appointment with pdoc on 16 Sep, I told her that W said my emails to her are "little stones" & she'll get tired of it & may need to change of counsellor. Initially W gave me her name card with her email@work , in which, can email her whenever I feel like pouring out my woes.
Pdoc said she also don't know how professional "they" are. I told pdoc how I felt - am doubting W's professionalism since previous few sessions.
My trust is being betrayed! Anger resides deep inside me for 2 days but I have to psycho myself, it's not worth getting angry over such person. Anger will only further deteriote my already poor health.
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